Dear, dear spouses
of the broken people…
Thank you for not letting us push you away.
Thank you for seeing past the desperate facade we thought was infallible.
Thank you for understanding that not everyone wants to be touched…or can be touched…and adjusting your needs accordingly.
Thank you for remembering not to ask about it.
Thank you for listening to all of it and accepting it
even though you want to kill someone
even though you want to let anger take over and justice prevail.
Thank you for knowing that you just have to embrace it.
Thank you for sleeping on the floor when the bed becomes a trap.
Thank you for letting irrational behaviors slide…
because they make sense…because you get it.
Thank you for never attempting to relate to it.
Thank you for teaching us that we can be loved despite…
Thank you for always, always standing by…
Thank you for waiting for us to come to you.
Thank you for knowing when we are ready.
Thank you for knowing when we aren’t.
Thank you for agreeing to take part in a union we believed we could never deserve.
Thank you so very much…dear, dear spouses…
for loving people…who sometimes doubt the love they are in.
We are grateful for your patience.
We are overwhelmed by your strength.
And we believe in the salvation you offer when you look into our eyes
and show us who we are.
4 thoughts on “Dear Spouses,”
Thank you so much for writing this. As a trauma survivor I can relate to almost everything (besides for the sleeping on the floor part:)
Thank you! I should pass this on to my husband…
This is a beautiful and wonderful post. Just wonderful.